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If you, like many a young Gentleman, have been busy with work and friends, but feel a yearning for something else – something more meaningful in your life, then this is the guide for you. How to get a girlfriend for the summer. When you’re constantly meeting new women… whether they turn out to be your type or not, you’ll start to see yourself as a man with choices.

This route to ask a girl out is bound to make her gush. Buy a journal and write a little something about all the times you’ve hung out with each other.

Understand you are putting the pressure on her when you ask her out in front of a crowd of people. A good route to ask a girl out and make her feel special is to write a note on the bottom of her morning beverage. It may take a few times buying her morning latte before you muster up the courage to ask her out, but trust me, it’s super worth it.

She will lose interest. Assuming you’ve met the girl you want to make your girlfriend… here are our main guidelines for helping you avoid it ending up as just sex, or, having it fizzle out. When you have that calmness in yourself, a woman will notice it.

3. Let her be the one who is trying to get you to commit

• You don’t need to ask her questions like, “So, are you looking for a boyfriend right now?
• If you want the hottest girl you’ve ever met, who you haven’t met yet to be your girlfriend sometime in the future, stay here.
• - LISTEN to her, give her your time and don’t dismiss her with logical solutions.
• A girlfriend’s family is bound to be very judgemental of a new boyfriend at first, so it’s important you prove them wrong.
• We men, on the other hand… we often become complacent, and forget to nurture our social life outside the relationship.
• The other mistake many men make is to create a relationship with the girl in their heads before one exists in real life.

Yes, that can work with some women, but with most attractive women that you meet, their dream is to be able to meet a guy who makes them feel like they need to live up to his expectations. They meet an attractive woman, they start to fall in love with her right away and they really want to get to be her boyfriend. You don’t need to ask her questions like, “So, are you looking for a boyfriend right now?

However, if they are just girls you liked sexually but didn’t make an effort to show interest in, then the friendship is false. You’re just settling for it to stay in her vicinity with the vague hope of escalating your relationship at a later stage. The friend zone can be a destructive place for everyone involved. You’re considering a fully-council-taxed member of the friend zone when a girl you’re interested in starts to come to you with her problems with other guys. If you deny yourself exercise, you’re giving everyone your time but yourself.

So that even if she rejects you, you don’t feel rejected because ‘you weren’t really trying’. How do you know if you’re doing this or not? Well if you make up an excuse to hang out with her on a continuous basis, such as to study together, for work or any other reason then you’re playing it too safe.

But over time, this can become suffocating and your social life takes the hit. This becomes especially evident whenever a relationship ends and the man has lost contact with most of his friends and has to start again from scratch.

With that in mind, you shouldn’t try asking unless you already have a pretty good idea she’ll say yes. Hang out with her friends too. Girls place a lot of importance on what their friends think. If you want her to be your girlfriend, it goes a long way to have her friends like you.